After 19th July 2016, every year on this day is so #memorable. Because this was the day she was beaten at midnight from her husband family along with his mother and sister and thrown out of the house dragging her pulling her hair from second floor. The reason was their greed as they had got married with a wrong intention. She celebrates this day as a BLACKDAY of her life till she is alive! Here is the story what happened.
Like all other girls, even She got married to this guy in an arranged marriage with so much dreams and desires in life. According to them they were all educated family and they lived in one of the best places and her place is a Village. During the journey of this marriage, she realised it was not an usual marriage. It was a set up and a business agreement within their family so that they will get their son married to a rich girl so that their son life will be settled. Initially she couldn’t understand as she was new to the family . But as days passed by , she could sense each small thing happening in the house and how each one of them as a person.
Basically her husband was never interested to be married. She don’t know for what reasons but other family members like his parents and sister forced him to be married and be the same person like how he was before marriage. He need not change and his wife anyways have to live with him and she will have no choice. This was the agreement they had. Before marriage also his irresponsibility was too much but then she was told by her family that guys will be like this only before marriage and later they will change. Remember, his family agreement is totally different. Finally marriage took place! And it was a grand wedding ceremony with lakhs of spending as usual.
After marriage, as usual some rituals few days here at girls home and then to husbands home. During this phase also she never felt his presence neither into the marriage nor her. He was just doing it for the sake of it. After some point of time , he started feeling her presence in everything may be because She was living in the same house and in the same room. He had no choice except to live with her and see her every day. Somehow he was trying to get in to her but then usual mother in law and sister in law tortures like in movies. Filling ears of her husband about her all the time and even when he was wrong, encouraging him. Always teaching him wrong things and to hate her.
As mentioned before , She started understanding lot of things and She used to openly ask her husband why things are like this and also how serious he is about this marriage. Apart from this, in her husband absence lot of things used to happen. Like a fool she used to discuss with him what happened in the house in his absence forgetting, they are all from the same family and she is an outsider. This used to build hatredness because his mother and sister used to change the whole story for him in a different way which would make him hate her. As days and months passed by , she and her husband started getting together well to some extent (which she believed things are going fine) . One fine day she decided to buy a car for their wedding anniversary as her husband always wanted a big car . They also took a test drive. Booked also. Him and his parents were very happy.
He somehow never wanted to change much after marriage. He wanted to go out with his friends and his sister almost every weekends but not her . Him and his family used to force her to go to her parents house every weekend saying she must see her parents and give importance. But the actual reason was , he wanted to go out with his friends and his sister almost on all the weekends. As she was working she used to be busy on weekdays and weekends was the only time she was getting to be with her husband and family. But they wanted her to go to her parents on all the weekends. She was patiently waiting for things to get better.
As a family they never wanted her to get pregnant or to even have a marriage certificate . Even her husband did not want her to have a child. She don’t know for what reasons. This continued even after one year of marriage . After booking a car , one day suddenly he comes and tells her that the chain given in the marriage is too short. His astrologer have asked him to wear a chain which should be long enough to touch the heart so that his luck will be changed. She said fine and told her father the same . Her father said no money and still he got the new chain which was long enough so that his daughter will not be tortured in any way. After all this, one day she was at work and suddenly fell sick and was falling on the floor and crying in pain due to severe stomach ache. As usual, her emergency contact was her husband and he gets a call from her office saying your wife is very sick. Please come and take her . In return he responds , please send her in the cab and I cannot come. May be the distance between his house and my office was abt 6-7km. He couldn’t go and later his sister calls her and asks if she should go to pick her up. She says No and later he will come in a bike. Takes her to the nearest hospital for check up with no money. The bill was 500Rs. She pays!
Everything together disturbed her so much and she decided to cancel the car booking. It was on 15th July 2016 , for a weekend she was at my parents house. Even her parents and brother felt it’s too much she is doing taking loan for a new car where in her husband was so irresponsible and ignorant towards her. So after buying car also it will be her who will face the same things by paying EMI and he would never change. All together car booking cancelled and she informs her husband the same that she changed her mind to cancel. And she returns to his house. On 19th July 2016 both of them had some argument about everything which was happening till then over the call . Of course she was concerned and upset about her life and she spoke , shouted and argued that how bad things were going. That day was Guru Poornima , him,his sister and mother had been out somewhere . She reached their home from work and it was around 8:30pm. She was tired and upset . She skipped her dinner also and went to her room in second floor and fell asleep. Usually her Phone will be in silent mode.
Later these 3 people , her husband , mother in law and sister in law have returns home by 11:30pm or so. They try to call her and as the phone was in silent she continued to sleep. Then suddenly these 2 ladies go to her room and knocks the door loud and scream her name(Ria). As she was in deep sleep , she took sometime to realise and get up, open the door. Soon she opened the door her mother in law will start beating her saying how dare she shouts at my husband and when she tried to stop her beating by holding her hand, her sister in law screams how dare she hit her mother and again start beating her. Then her husband heard the big noise and he goes to the room and time may be around 11:45pm or so . He hear from his mother and sister that His wife has beaten them. Then he just pulls her hair and drag her down from second floor and throw her out of the house as if she is like some animal. May be animals also gets a better treatment! How will she ever forget this incident and move on when it haunts every single day of her life?? It was Tuesday, Guru Poornima on 19th July 2016. At least for a courtesy sake he never tried contacting her since then.
Meanwhile through various sources she understood , all they wanted was a marriage for money not her. Car cancellation was the reason all that happened on that day! Today is 19th July 2020. It still haunts and bring her tears as and when she remembers it. Will she ever forget all this and move on in her life?? Well, I don’t know!! Honestly, she fought, argued or got angry in that marriage to save her marriage, never to break. Finally it broke into pieces which she could never correct! Never she asked for any money or expensive gifts nor she had any demands except a little Care if not Love.
Please check the background of the guy and family when you are getting your precious daughter married. She is MORE PRECIOUS. And let me not judge all the guys and on earth will be same. For her bad luck she ended up one like this. Though I had seen these things only in movies and TV Serials, I understand these incidents still happen in real lives.
Thanks for reading!